What do you guys do if your gf/wife wants to bring pets and you are not ok with this. My gf says she wants to bring her pet dog later after marriage, that pet dog is currently staying in some other city with her old aunt who might pass away in some years. So she wants to bring the dog after marriage. I have been clear since the start of this relationship that I am not really ok with animals inside my house mainly because I don't like to be unhygienic. I even told her earlier that I am ok with you bringing your birds (she has around 6 birds). But I am not ok with dog or cat or large animals because I stay in a flat and flats generally don't have much open spaces too. I also specified to her that I also have allergy and breathing issues and I sometimes take steroidal nasal sprays for the same and these get increased due to it. She says she understands that but does not imagine a life without the dog. She says someday she will have to bring it. For me the main concern is hygiene more than anything else. I have observed no matter how much you train your dog or cat it will poop or pee at least once anywhere inside the flat.She says she will rather not marry me. What should I do?
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So, I am a jee aspirant, in 12(school going). And since November 2023, I am addicted to m@st#rb@tion. Have extreme social anxiety (which is just eating me up). It's difficult to study now, and I want a good iit, or the top nit, with CS only. I have been a good student till 10th grade, but 11 went downhill. cuz it required consistency, which I didn't have since all those years. Can anyone help?
So, I am a jee aspirant, in 12(school going). And since November 2023, I am addicted to m@st#rb@tion. Have extreme social anxiety (which is just eating me up). It's difficult to study now, and I want a good iit, or the top nit, with CS only. I have been a good student till 10th grade, but 11 went downhill. cuz it required consistency, which I didn't have since all those years. Can anyone help?
