Introduction:
In a quest to demystify the age-old question of whether penis size matters to women, we turned to the source for answers – women themselves. Acknowledging that size might be a factor but not the only one, we engaged 20 women in a candid discussion about their preferences and experiences. The results unveil a diverse range of opinions, emphasizing the importance of technique over size for a satisfying sexual experience.
Individual Perspectives:
1. Sanya, 27:
I mean it can't be a Cheetos chip but no, size doesn't really matter unless it's a really big di*k. That scares me but if the guy makes me comfortable, then it's all cool.
2. Sanjana, 28 (name changed):
Yes, size matters. There's no skill without a tool and even the best of tools are useless without skill. I met a guy who sprung up with his 7.5 inches. I wanted to run. Because there is only so much your body can take. Besides, he was kind of behaving like an ogre, if you know what I mean.
The I also met one with a 5 inch one (I think) he got the skill right but I think there was room for more. So, the length and girth. Possibly girth more than length. How they wield it is also important. But yes, size matters. Not much you can do with an earthworm and a fist-ish will most definitely destroy you.
3. Ritika, 30:
It actually depends on a lot of factors. I am short person, so for me a big penis is a little difficult. I mean not because it has problems finding its way but it hurts in the, "you're hurting my stomach kinda way". If it's too small, it gets lost in my pubes. So I prefer an average size that gets the 'job' done..
4. Gia, 32:
My ex had a small one but his girth was just about right. It was thick. So even though his penis didn't extend more than 5 inches (when it was hard), the girth made it possible for me to climax. Plus he had these moves that compensated for his size. Small penises aren't bad at all if the man knows how to use it.
5. Garima, 30 (name changed):
Both actually. but technique more than size. If you don't know how to make love to a woman, you will not make her orgasm even with the biggest dick in the world. Having said that, even the most skilled lover might fall short of pleasing their woman, if they are too small.
Most women do not orgasm from penetration, proving technique (foreplay and much more) is more important than size. Also, if size was more important than technique, penis enhancement procedures and condoms would have been more popular than articles telling men how to make women orgasm.
6. Preeti, 36:
One guy was just too big for me. That's the day I realised big penises mean shit, actually. He probably didn't know what to do with it himself and he kept ramming me like hitting the bottom of a sauce bottle, to get it to come out. I could feel his whole body inside me. Size does matter and big penises are hard to figure! I prefer average and technique.
7. Vrinda, 30 (name changed):
I have had a range of sizes and in my experience, skill compensates for the lack of size, any day. Also, size or no size, the quality of sex or what a guy does with a woman in the sack depends largely on what he feels for her or how generous or selfish he is in bed. Big di*k's, small di*k's: orgasms have more to do with the effort men make to get their ladies off sometimes, instead of just the length and girth of their little man.
8. Nandini, 25:
This one guy I was with kept showing his big penis off. His words "look at this big di*k. does it turn you on"? And it really didn't turn me on because he kept showing off. It was like all talk and no action. He wasn't good in bed at all. So no, penis size has nothing to do with how good or bad the sex is.
9. Maampi, 24 (name changed):
I think both size and technique matter because there are some women who like crazy fetishes and want their guys to give them complete pleasure in bed. So if you look at it, technique is equally important and foreplay is a must. Eventually, of course size does matter.
10. Aashna, 33:
This guy's penis was actually the size of a chap stick. I couldn't even feel him inside me! It was bad. I feel bad saying this because he's a nice guy and he tried real hard but I prefer a big one I guess.
11. Pratichi, 26:
I think men with big dicks are way more confident and you can see that confidence ooze out while in bed with them. So even if you don't climax, they give you a good time.
12. Megha, 33:
For me it's not about size. If a man can give me some good loving, I absolutely have no qualms about how big or small his penis is. Also FYI, a penis is not the only way to make a girl cum!
13. Tamanna, 28:
I don't want a thumb for a penis size! Other than that size, any other is just about fine.
14. Mainika, 24:
I have no issues with size. I just don't want to see a bent penis! Yes, they exist and it freaks me out. Other than that, if the man is big or small really doesn't matter. All that matters is how he uses his tool.
15. Ragini, 30 (name changed):
Size, definitely. There's no such thing as bad sex, actually, except when there's no sensation. Which is what happens if it's too small. You don't even feel it. What's the point in that? But, if the guy well-endowed, then he doesn't need to work very hard, and neither do you.
16. Apeksha, 38:
In my experience with men, I've come to realise size is not too important. I have been with a lot of men, with different shapes and sizes. If the penis is too big, it barely does the work but still satiates you. If it's too small, the guy compensates that with his extraordinary moves. So size really isn't the question as much as technique is. Guys really shouldn't be insecure with their size. If they tank in bed because of bad technique, that's something of concern.
17. Malini, 30:
I have a petite frame and I think guys with big di*ks are overrated. Average vagina's are only 3-4 inches deep, so if a big penis man penetrates that, he can only come halfway through. It's quite a waste. Besides, it becomes quite painful to take in a big penis for someone as petite as me. My vote is for an average sized penis, any day!
18. Malvika, 29 (name changed):
Although, a vagina can expand almost 200% of its average depth, a mighty huge penis can't reach the clit properly for an orgasm. Average sized penises usually find their way hassle free. A big penis might be good to look at and a great ego boost for a man but they fall short to make ends meet, if you know what I mean. I have been with men who've sprung out their 5 inch di*ks at me and have used them very well!
19. Richa, 27 (name changed):
Technique for me, always. Size doesn't matter!
20. Priya, 25:
As long as I don't have to ask if it's in, I am happy!
21. Naintara, 32:
When I think about the good sex I have had and the bad sex I have had, the two experiences have no correlation with penis sizes, whatsoever! So I'd say, size doesn't matter!
Results Summary:
- Technique matters more than size: 7
- Preference for larger sizes: 6
- An average-sized penis is satisfactory: 5
- Acceptance of smaller sizes: 2
Conclusion:
In this comprehensive study, women overwhelmingly prioritize technique over size, debunking the myth that a larger penis guarantees satisfaction. The consensus suggests that an average-sized penis, combined with skillful and considerate techniques, stands out as the preferred choice among women. This insight aims to provide a more nuanced perspective on the often-debated topic of penis size and its impact on female sexual satisfaction.
